White Men – Asian Women

If you live in some major metropolitan centers in Canada or United States, or even in some parts of Europe, you will notice increasing number of Asian/Caucasian mixed couples.  What is interesting, of course, is that very high percentage of these relationships is between “white men” and “Asian” women.  (“Asian” being referred to Chinese, Japanese and look alike, otherwise Asia is a big continent with all types of ethnicities. “Oriental” would have been a more descriptive term but apparently it has become politically incorrect nowadays!)

There is certainly nothing wrong with mixed racial relationships or marriages; it diversifies populations and would eventually reduce racism. But does it really? Well to answer this question we should question why there are so many “Asian” women who are after “white” men and not blacks, Latinos or East Indians.

I am a” white” male myself and have travelled to a lot of places because of my work. I am from California but I have been living in Vancouver, Canada, for the last couple of years. I have been exposed to large population of Asians in most places that I have lived in. Proportionally Vancouver has a very large population of Chinese and Koreans among other Asian ethnicities. When you walk in downtown Vancouver, or any other area within metro Vancouver, you will see plenty of white men\Chinese women combos.

So what causes this phenomenon? Why is it that we hardly see Chinese women with black, Latino, Indian (South East Asian) or Middle Eastern men? Well, we may occasionally see that happen but those men have to be very rich or of very high statures, otherwise such occurrences are very rare.

I have been researching to see what others have to say about this issue and I was not able to find much material with real substance. I found one blog posting which was written by an “Asian” woman about the same topic and she said the reasons are as the following: ““White” men’s height, cultural differences, beautiful babies, open mindedness of white men, and bigger packages”!

Well how does one explain what is wrong with the points made by her, which are probably agreed upon by many Chinese and look alike women? Any of these points could apply to men of any culture and not just what is considered as whites. For example when it comes to height, are all white men really tall? Aren’t there tall Asian men? I didn’t realize that Yao Ming, who is 7 feet tall, was short!!! Not to mention all the tall black men, middle eastern men or Indian men. Also in regards to “packages” the fact is that majority of men of all culture have penises that are average size regardless of their ethnicity. Even if you want to consider the myths, then isn’t it blacks and Arabs that are known as people having bigger than average packages?

In the case of beautiful babies, aren’t all babies beautiful anyway? It’s only when they get older that they could become ugly specially if they are repulsive inside based on the prejudices and the hatred that they have learned from their parents and the sicknesses of their societies. Also wouldn’t combination of “Asian” women and men of other ethnicities also make beautiful children? One should ask what the criterion for being considered as beautiful is. Is it the “whiteness” that makes one beautiful? Certainly that is not the case. 

I don’t believe that any of these points are the answers for why the union of Caucasian men and “Asian women” are on the rise. The main reason is that Asians, in this case Asian women, are in general very racist and “white” loving people. They consider “white race” a class up their own and therefore by marrying a white man so many of their “shortfalls” will be satisfied. So it’s not really the “white” men who are chasing “Asian” woman but rather the opposite holds the truth.

In 2007 a study done by Columbia University on racial preferences in dating reveal this notion further:

“We found no evidence of the stereotype of a white male preference for East Asian women. However, we also found that East Asian women did not discriminate against white men (only against black and Hispanic men). As a result, the white man-Asian woman pairing was the most common form of interracial dating—but because of the women’s neutrality, not the men’s pronounced preference. Men don’t seem to discriminate based on race when it comes to dating. A woman’s race had no effect on the men’s choices.”

The general racism exercised by Asian cultures is not what I am concentrating on and it would be a good topic for another article. But as far as the topic on this posting is concerned, most Chinese women who chase white men do so because they are purely ignorant and racist. They are fascinated by what is called “white” and they want to be one. They want their children to look “white”. When you talk to a lot of second generation young Chinese women you will notice the extreme and exaggerated copying of typical young North American “white” women behavior and conversation styles; “Oh my god, like you know whatever” type of gibberish.

Chinese women tend not to talk about their racist feelings and pretend that it’s white men who are attracted to them because of their petit figures, “exotic looks”, “small and mysterious eyes” and ageless features. But there are essentially three main reasons why we see more and more of White man/Asian woman combo: 1- the Asian woman chases white men relentlessly. 2- Then they worship their hunted white men like a king. 3- Some “white” men have no better alternative.

It would have been lovely if people of different ethnicities would actually get together because of love and humanity and to create better societies. But when the nature of a union is based on racist attractions there is no hope for the future of humanity.

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Article written by skydiver

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  1. test123

    Vancouver also has lot of Asian-Indians. I bet you hardly see White Men-Indian women pairing. Also to why you don’t see many Black/Indian/Persian men with Asian women is because, there are very few Black/Middle Eastern/Persian/Indian people live in Vancouver. The Black population is pretty much non-existent. The probability of a black guy meeting a Chinese girl would be very slim. Whites on the other hand are a majority by a large number and the next big group are the Chinese. So there is more chance to see this pairing. I disagree with the fact that Asians are racist. If they were, White men would not be dating Asian women.

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  3. vancityraisedboi

    My buddies and I always joke about this and I have a lot of white boy friends who always tell me how they take full advantage of the scenario in every single way imaginable. Vancouver consists of 5 major ethnic groups, Asian oriental on the West Side (very wealthy),Indian on the South Side (up and coming), White scattered, Persians on the North Shore(very wealthy). Mix of foreign exchange students down town. As for dating, the white boys have the best of both worlds hands down. Many, not all but many Persian men do well with all races and lots seem to have Caucasian features, Indians do ok, Asian guys usually can’t date outside their race, unless they were born and raised in Canada and have been bodybuilding since they were 5 and or party excessive hard and portray a hipster western self sabotaging image. As a male, I hate to see the injustice in the dating world but its all there for sure. I would say, in the dating world, white women seem to be the ultimate prize by all races and on that one the Blacks have conquered it, hands down.

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    1. Guess Who

      Take a close look at the picture. What do you see? I see a young (mid-twenties at most), beautiful, vibrant Asian women, with a lovely smile and sparkling eyes, and fine, clear skin. Turn to her partner – he’s totally busted. He’s older, probably mid/late 30′s to mid-40′s. His hair is a mess. He’s unshaven, not in a cool way, but a sloppy way. He’s got lots of wrinkles,. Dude that neck chain is just not working for you. Looks like he really needs a shower. This not an appropriate way for a man to present himself to a beautiful woman, it’s disrespectful. Maybe he is a millionaire or has a super personality, who knows? Here’s the point – why do so many really attractive Asian women go after ugly white guys. Everyone can date whoever they want, but this trend of beautiful Asian women throwing themselves at busted white guys is not good. There’s definitely a trend here and we should ask why. I doubt it has much to do with physical attributes. That is not enough to sustain a relationship for more than a few weeks or months. Nothing “wrong” with AF/WM couples, but there’s also nothing wrong with exploring the potential reasons for the trend. Not different than asking why so many people join Facebook – it’s not by accident. Wake up ladies!

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  4. vancityraisedboi

    Excellent article, on a very obvious yet taboo subject in Vancouver. I was raised in Van, I am ethnic light skinned 6-2 went to Univ and became a Realtor for over 6 years in Van and guess who all the clients were, Asians, their wealth in Vancouver is absolutely mind boggling. Anyways, I have to say in Vancouver, it pays huge dividends to be a WHITE MALE if you want to freeload your way into wealth and extravagance, all you need to do is date an Asian women with very wealthy and educated parents or husband and you are set. It does not matter what you look like, how much you weigh, personality or non,grade 7 education, welfare, you will be a god and treated by tons of ready and willing Millionaire Asian women who’s parents are doctors, like a king. You can live in her condo which her parents bought and paid 3 million cash for, for free, she will lie to her parents and give you money if you need it, she will lick your feet and take your shoes off when you come home from your part time labor gig making 10 buck and hour in her 150k car. You wanna get ahead in life in Van, be a white male, 5 foot 6 300 pounds no problems, you will be idolized by a pretty, loaded Asian women. I am sorry but, Asian women ain’t doing much for Asian men’s pride, if you know what I mean. By the way, all other races you mentioned in Van who are usually larger down below and taller or equal in height are usually asked, “ohh, where are you from, you are not Canadian,” mean while, Hans the foreign exchange student from Sweden is though to be a true Canadian by her.LOL. I have no Idea what white ppl did to Asians but it has to have been something pretty bad for their women to idolize anything that is white. I have not seen anything special from white boys, having been raised around them my while life, to say the very least.

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  6. partyondude

    Well, I certainly understand where you’re coming from (and I absolutely agree with your post), however, there is more racism going on with asian man and non asian woman particularly with a white woman.

    There is a perception in western societies that white men can date whoever they want. And NOT because asian women are racist and chasing after them (and I’m sure there are ones that are very racist because I’ve seen some disturbing youtube videos with asian women making fun of asian men) but because white man/asian woman couple and also black man and white woman couple are so common that they have become acceptable with western societies and plus they generate revenues for the entertainment industries.

    For now, most asian men and black women are out of luck when it comes to interracial dating. They are the least desirable unfortunately, but that could change if the negative perception of race becomes obsolete.

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  7. milan827

    This is so true, just come to State College Pennsylvania, the home of Penn State University and you will see a lot of this going on here. It’s so sickening and Blacks and Latinos get no love from the Asians, they only give it to white men here. It sucks., cause I really like Chinese women; and I am a well educated and all. But my skin is brown….and I get a lot dirty looks, now I know why…. fucking racist Chinese women…..

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  8. bjm5150

    Here’s my two cent’s: I have extensive experience dating/living in asia as well as some experience dating american asian women too.
    Here are the three real reasons why asian women(usually) prefer white guys over others in order of importance:
    1. Lighter skin is better skin a.k.a. the caste system in all asian countries still exsits, an asian woamn will say “I’m so dark” lol they want lighter babies
    2. White guys “can” be nicer than asian guys and let the asian women get away with stuff an asian guy will not(we like them because they are sweeter than white women on average)
    3. Money/green card(they’ll date a non white for these as well but would prefer a white guy)
    4. Bigger package perception(some asian’s date blacks for this reason but is it social suicide in asia)

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  10. redrose

    Asians in general are very racist. In China people of different cultures are discriminated in various ways. People of Hong Kong call main china residents “China Man” which is a derogatory term. But they are certainly “white” loving.

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  11. pirate

    Yes I agree. Chinese women are very racist and the way they treat white men versus other men is very different. But I think in general Asians are very racist. If you are white (even a bum in the street) you are fine, but if you are black, Hispanic, Indian or other Asians of lower class from their point of view, then you could be treated very badly. You will notice that in restaurants, grocery shops and other places.

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  12. lisamay

    What I have noticed is that Chinese women who are inrelationships with white men seem to be much happier and smile more, in contrast to typical cold and unhappy looks! Next time you see a pregnant or nursing Chinese woman with a white man notice how proudly she walks in comparison to Chinese couples.

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  13. sam08

    Great blog! I am a second generation Chinese man who lives in Vancouver and I totally agree with you. But I like to add something: Not all Chinese women are like that and there are many who don’t think that way. Regardless I would not want to be with shallow women like that anyway and I feel sorry for the some of the men who end up with them.

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  14. rightisright

    What do you mean by some of white men have no alternative. It’s seems like you are bashing your own race too!

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    1. skydiver

      Well think about it, how many bald, fat, old, ugly and pathetic, white men have you seen with Asian women. It seems like when they are rejected by most women of any culture or race they end up with an Asian. As I said in the blog, Asian women don’t discriminate against white men.

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      1. vancityraisedboi

        Dude, 100% agreed. BTW, I have very little attraction towards them and all my GFs have been White girls, but that is normal. Ie a good looking tall guy with a good looking girl. A 65 year old fat bald white guy with scabs and a 25 year old Asian girl who is 100 times wealthier than him, and she thinks she has hit JACKPOT? Something very disturbing about that, and it is everywhere in Van. I’ll bet you 1 million, that you will never see that scenario with a 65 year old fat bald black,Indian,Middle Eastern, hispanic guy ever. I really feel sorry for Asian Men, to say the very least. Don’t they talk to their sisters and women, seriously.

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