If you live in some major metropolitan centers in Canada or United States, or even in some parts of Europe, you will notice increasing number of Asian/Caucasian mixed couples. What is interesting, of course, is that very high percentage of these relationships is between “white men” and “Asian” women. (“Asian” being referred to Chinese, Japanese and look alike, otherwise Asia is a big continent with all types of ethnicities. “Oriental” would have been a more descriptive term but apparently it has become politically incorrect nowadays!)
There is certainly nothing wrong with mixed racial relationships or marriages; it diversifies populations and would eventually reduce racism. But does it really? Well to answer this question we should question why there are so many “Asian” women who are after “white” men and not blacks, Latinos or East Indians.
I am a” white” male myself and have travelled to a lot of places because of my work. I am from California but I have been living in Vancouver, Canada, for the last couple of years. I have been exposed to large population of Asians in most places that I have lived in. Proportionally Vancouver has a very large population of Chinese and Koreans among other Asian ethnicities. When you walk in downtown Vancouver, or any other area within metro Vancouver, you will see plenty of white men\Chinese women combos.
So what causes this phenomenon? Why is it that we hardly see Chinese women with black, Latino, Indian (South East Asian) or Middle Eastern men? Well, we may occasionally see that happen but those men have to be very rich or of very high statures, otherwise such occurrences are very rare.
I have been researching to see what others have to say about this issue and I was not able to find much material with real substance. I found one blog posting which was written by an “Asian” woman about the same topic and she said the reasons are as the following: ““White” men’s height, cultural differences, beautiful babies, open mindedness of white men, and bigger packages”!
Well how does one explain what is wrong with the points made by her, which are probably agreed upon by many Chinese and look alike women? Any of these points could apply to men of any culture and not just what is considered as whites. For example when it comes to height, are all white men really tall? Aren’t there tall Asian men? I didn’t realize that Yao Ming, who is 7 feet tall, was short!!! Not to mention all the tall black men, middle eastern men or Indian men. Also in regards to “packages” the fact is that majority of men of all culture have penises that are average size regardless of their ethnicity. Even if you want to consider the myths, then isn’t it blacks and Arabs that are known as people having bigger than average packages?
In the case of beautiful babies, aren’t all babies beautiful anyway? It’s only when they get older that they could become ugly specially if they are repulsive inside based on the prejudices and the hatred that they have learned from their parents and the sicknesses of their societies. Also wouldn’t combination of “Asian” women and men of other ethnicities also make beautiful children? One should ask what the criterion for being considered as beautiful is. Is it the “whiteness” that makes one beautiful? Certainly that is not the case.
I don’t believe that any of these points are the answers for why the union of Caucasian men and “Asian women” are on the rise. The main reason is that Asians, in this case Asian women, are in general very racist and “white” loving people. They consider “white race” a class up their own and therefore by marrying a white man so many of their “shortfalls” will be satisfied. So it’s not really the “white” men who are chasing “Asian” woman but rather the opposite holds the truth.
In 2007 a study done by Columbia University on racial preferences in dating reveal this notion further:
“We found no evidence of the stereotype of a white male preference for East Asian women. However, we also found that East Asian women did not discriminate against white men (only against black and Hispanic men). As a result, the white man-Asian woman pairing was the most common form of interracial dating—but because of the women’s neutrality, not the men’s pronounced preference. Men don’t seem to discriminate based on race when it comes to dating. A woman’s race had no effect on the men’s choices.”
The general racism exercised by Asian cultures is not what I am concentrating on and it would be a good topic for another article. But as far as the topic on this posting is concerned, most Chinese women who chase white men do so because they are purely ignorant and racist. They are fascinated by what is called “white” and they want to be one. They want their children to look “white”. When you talk to a lot of second generation young Chinese women you will notice the extreme and exaggerated copying of typical young North American “white” women behavior and conversation styles; “Oh my god, like you know whatever” type of gibberish.
Chinese women tend not to talk about their racist feelings and pretend that it’s white men who are attracted to them because of their petit figures, “exotic looks”, “small and mysterious eyes” and ageless features. But there are essentially three main reasons why we see more and more of White man/Asian woman combo: 1- the Asian woman chases white men relentlessly. 2- Then they worship their hunted white men like a king. 3- Some “white” men have no better alternative.
It would have been lovely if people of different ethnicities would actually get together because of love and humanity and to create better societies. But when the nature of a union is based on racist attractions there is no hope for the future of humanity.
Article written by skydiver